I remember when growing
up in Sladedale Road I was very keen indeed on
gardening. I was allowed to look after one side
of our back garden.
I used to order and buy a gardening magazine out
of my very meager amount of pocket money. Being
so very keen and green fingered I loved learning
about plants and also buying them, planting them
in the soil and watching them grow. It was an
immense buzz for me.
I got a paper round and
one of my customers was an elderly lady by the
name of Miss H. She lived on Piedmont Road in a
huge old Victorian house. She let the top half
to a young working couple. Miss H. was
bed-ridden and paralyzed from the neck down and
was unable to walk or even use her hands and
arms.
When I scored this paper round, from a friend, I
inherited Miss H. along with the paper round. I
didn't mind at all.
The routine was that I
delivered her daily evening paper and made her a
cup of tea every day, which she drank through a
bent glass straw from the cup placed on a
bedside cabinet that she lent over and drank
from. I would drop her paper in to her as she
lay in her bed, in the front room. I'd then go
up the passage to make her cuppa in the
scullery. Whilst waiting for the kettle to boil,
I noticed that she had a large back garden and
it was very overgrown. I asked her if it was OK
for me to dig it over and make it into a garden
and she agreed to let me. I carried my dad's
gardening tools around each day and got stuck
into it. It had loads of brick rubble, broken
glass, tangled wire and other rubbish buried
amongst the huge deep-rooted weeds and
convolvulus grass. But, with much enthusiasm and
the very pleasing knowledge that I had ALL this
garden, all just for me to use, I soon had it
all dug over, weeded, raked and nice and level,
ready for planting. I planted all kinds of
vegetables and flowers. I also learnt how to
grow plants for the first time, such as celery;
and how to put brown paper around it as it grew.
How to grow lettuces with good firm hearts,
using an elastic band round the leaves. How to
mold up the soil round the spuds; make twig
trestles to train the peas; and strung up string
for the beans to wind around.
I read about why to 'dead head' plants and so
much more. I was in my element and loved it so
much.
As I said, it was my job
was to deliver her paper. I would enter her
unlocked, very large, front door and then enter
into her front room, where she lay in a large
bed. Now the strange thing is that, quite often,
as I entered her room with her cuppa, she would
quickly put her hands under the bedclothes,
rustling quite loudly the open newspaper on her
bed. She always looked guilty but I never ever
said any thing and made out I saw nothing. Being
a young kid I was a bit put off by seeing this
as it gave me the creeps. And this would happen
quite often.
One day, I came to her house, much earlier than
my usual time, probably to do some gardening. I
entered into the passage as usual and I looked
up at a figure standing on the stair landing. It
was Miss H., standing there in her nightdress!
As our eyes met she let out a scream and I felt
my hair stand on end with the sudden sight and
sound of her being there.
I quickly walked back
outside and went away. After that incident,
whenever I delivered her paper and made her cup
of tea, I would deliberately make some noise in
advance, to let her know I was there.
Neither her nor me ever mentioned anything about
that episode.
Not so long after that our family moved away
from Plumstead and I had to leave my lovely
garden that I loved so much.
I found out much later
that she finally got caught out as a fraud, by
the Home Help people; I felt very sad for her,
but as to what happened to her after that, I
don't know.
I often thought about my
lovely garden, being reclaimed by the weeds, my
plants gone to seed and choked by the growing
army of weeds. We had only a small back yard
where we moved to in East London and it was
mostly covered over in concrete. Amongst the
many things that I lost because of that sad move
from Plumstead was my deep love of gardening.
Remembering the common things of life
Colin Weightman